Love is A vast thing to explain, it’s a feeling, a tendency towards someone, one whom you always want to be yours, near to you. Much closer, It draws a smile on one’s face when thinking of their beloved, it goes by.
You feel comfortable, share your problems and yourself to them. But to grow the tree of love you often have to keep it more simpler, no doubts, more trust. No possessiveness. It works with ups and downs just like when you have something you don’t really care but when you lose it you miss it too much, love is the same. It needs space always. Don’t be sticky to a person you love all the time as it decreases love. Let the two hearts crave for each other, let them miss each other. Don’t utter about love it’s not really the time to, let it be when the heart speaks of it.
Now, there are few more things.
Priorities and nature.
Some people are born more addicted to love so they more likely go for love more than hard work or success.
On the other side there are people who set their priorities, classify them in the way to achieve it step by step, one cannot live only with love as there are many things else to do, jobs, studies, taxes, family, friends, later on, kids, enjoyment. So it really keeps things limited and doesn’t really give a chance to love. It’s about priorities now. If one is too busy in his/her Job and stuff they more likely follow the routine of getting successful and make money.
We often listen to our hearts when we are lonely, as love rises in the heart so yeah when we are not really busy in life we think of love.
Ancient people were good in love because their goals were lesser, the world was so limited for them, earning and eating were the only thing for them, no competitions were there, no holidays, there were no adventures that’s why they were so good and yet called for their love.
If you take an example of Romeo and Juliet, they both were rich, they weren’t having the desire to make more money, buy cars or vacations etc, they desired for a partner to love. That’s why it’s famous because their minds were on loving each other.
Yes, we can love things like buying a vintage car, modifying it time to time. But that’s for a time being, a temporary love When you get older and you take a bed and you feel alone then you think that you should loved someone so it would have been better.
There exists a love with God and Parents that is much more beautiful than the 3rd one, some people kill their desires and find peace in worshipping God, follow the paths, ask for the basic needs and getting relief, on the other hand me (Saad) who dont really like to love his God more, so he wishes for many things, yet get his heart broken, desires to go on adventures and holidays, skip prayers and complain that he is depress and no peace